Did you think that all you had to do was stand around and wait?
Sorry! Not that easy. Every day, thousands of people find out, too late, that it’s not that simple. They end up NOT growing old at all! Not a very pleasant surprise.
Clearly, there are different ways to grow old and some of them are better than others.
Now, if the question was “How to fix your car” or “How to sell stuff on ebay” or “How to cook a holiday turkey” your approach would be different. You would try to learn what you could before you ever got started. That’s the intelligent way to go about anything that is new to you. Well, getting old is new to you. Don’t you want to know what to expect?
Have you ever said, “If only I knew then what I know now.” Think about it. Just about everyone learns to appreciate knowledge, after they get it. So why don’t you ask for advice from old people, from those who have done it before you. If you did, you would learn that a lot of those assumptions you’ve made about “aging” are wrong. I know this from experience. My assumptions were wrong too. That’s what I’m trying to tell you! I’m old and I could write the book!
I’ve written before that the 2% annual loss of speed, strength, stamina and sexual power (that the experts tell you about) is an AVERAGE. Believe me, it’s up to you. You don’t have to be average. But if you want to lose 40% of the best part of yourself between age 30 and 50, just stand around and wait. Or better yet, why stand? Find a comfortable couch. Sit and wait.
The rest of the physical part is your family health history. You can’t change your genes. But you can do something. You can get off the couch and do something for your body. Not everyone can run or bike or do aerobics. And no one can run if they’ve been on the couch for years. In that case, better ask the family doctor what can be done. Make sure you ask the right doctor. How has HE or SHE personally approached aging?
I have been running for over 40 years. Taking care of myself. Yet 15 years ago I had a major heart attack. Recently, at age 70, about half of my spleen just up and died. I guess that proves that taking care of myself was the wrong thing to do…. Say what? I don’t think so. I am still running.
No, it only proves that we are all “hanging here by a thread” even those of us who work at staying healthy. The truth is, no one is going to get out of here alive. I’m just saying that you can have a little control of how it all turns out. Waiting around for something good to happen just doesn’t work.
So what about those other assumptions? What about those things you are so, so, so, so positive about at your young age? After you’ve lived nearly a lifetime you may have to backpedal a little. Or a lot! Your youthful pride (And by youthful, I mean anything under 60) is going to trip you up. I promise.
So don’t be SO sure you are SO right about everything else. Maybe you should ask someone with a little more experience. Think about that on your next run!
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